Posts : 140 Join date : 2013-06-09 Age : 17 Location : in your mum
Subject: The Secret comes Out Tue Jun 11, 2013 5:38 pm
I'm sure a lot of you guys may be surprised when you read this, but I'm lesbian. It kinda scares me sometimes, because my parents are kind of controlling, and if they found out, I would be grounded for the rest of my life. And there's this girl I like, but she's one of my best friends. I don't know how to deal with it. Also, one of my guy friends still thinks I like him and I don't know what to tell him. I don't know how he deals with gays. It bothers me. And if I tell him, I'm afraid that he'll ask who I like now. I would kinda like to keep it a secret for now. Also, he's kind of popular at my school, and I don't want him to tell anyone. Does anybody have any advice?
Posts : 1151 Join date : 2013-03-23 Age : 18 Location : Wonderland
Subject: Re: The Secret comes Out Wed Jun 12, 2013 4:49 pm
First of all, why would your parents care? If they love you, they would accept you for who you are, not what you are not. If your friends are real good friends, they'd do the same as well. Kids can be jerks sometimes, trust me, I know. I've been picked on and called names just because I like books. But as long as you've one friend that'll stick by you through anything, then you're golden.
If the guy friend asks you who you like, and you want to keep it a secret, just tell him A) Percy Jackson (Or any fictional character you like, really) or B) No one at the moment... I've done these things TONS of times, and they've all worked for me!
Seriously, don't care what other people think. Humans are a judgmental race, and there is really nothing we can do about it. So I say, why not enjoy the ride?