Something I'd liek to talk about :/

^^^^^^
Ditto.

xD Anyways, yeah, hope your feelings weren't crushed. I like both CHB sites, and I hope people will think before they type next time!

Just stop it. I admit it. I'm crying. So what. I feel like a stupid baby, fighting with a friend. I'm ignoring my mom, who wants me to go out with her. Why? Because I'm so sad, hurt, angry. I can't take it. So what if I like one site better? I just can't take this. First, you get mad at me because I was joking around, and said-

Tethys wrote:

OH. Well Dan on the better other CHB is a good administrator, in my opinion. xD

Then you start cursing at me, and saying it's okay to curse because you blocked out 2 or 3 letters. I felt hurt because I'm only 12 and it really does hurt when someone says that. She said no site is better than the other. I agree. I really don't want to go through every post and say how I feel every time. So just stop picking on me, I get enough of it in real life.

Tethys, hun, she's not picking on YOU. There have been various people saying that CHB is better. You were one of them, and you probably didn't seem too jokey. But, I do agree with you about the cursing. There was no good, sufficient reason to curse her out. Blocking off some letters doesn't make it any better. Frankly, I don't like how the situation was treated.

I'm not going to quote things. Here's the outline;

Someone called this site better.
People got angry.
Someone else agreed this site was better.
Everyone overreacted.

Tethys, you never had to call it the better site (same with Bunny), joke or not. Now, you HBM people never had to be rude about it. I would've felt more sympathy for you guys if you had been, "Please, don't call it the better site, thanks...", etc. But in no way was it right for you guys to be extremely vulgar.

Now, as seeing as you both have reasons to be mad, I think you two (and maybe even start a topic for an apology on HBM) owe each other an apology. Please, let's just all be friends and stop the picking of the better site. Each site is good in it's own way, you must agree.[:

I don't know what to say to any of this anymore. Everything would either be taken wrong, or you'd just go off being mean to mean. I'm focusing too much on not crying to think straight. At the moment, I just want to die.

There's no reason to die. You shouldn't be mad over this. It was your opinion, though, you just stated it as a fact. Nothing would be taken the wrong way if you explain it more. You have to be more clear with what you say, and stop trying to use self-pity. Now, you can either be strong, apologize, then move on, or you can be sad forever because you didn't type something a good way. It's your choice, and I won't try to influence you, because I cannot control your opinion and actions, but I would shake this off and just try to be stronger, and not let this control my life-style.

I don't feel like I have many other choices. I already tried using reason, but that obviously didn't work. I could-

A: Tell her what I really feel like- I'm trying not to be immature about this, and me saying something of that sort would just intensify the 'war.' Don't worry, it's nothing like 'I HATE YOU.' I tried not to say anything she would take wrong, but clearly that didn't work.

B: Let Out All My Anger: This is out of the question because I need to think things through, and It's just rude to go around, criticizing people for no reason, just because I'm in a bad mood.

C: Use Self Pity: This one wouldn't hurt her feelings as much, so I tried. It's true that I would want to just go away for a while, and come back all happy, but dying is too extreme. I said I want to die because I really didn't want to be in a situation like this. I admit it was immature to say that.

D: Ignore This: Maybe this would be right, but I don't want to ignore this situation, knowing that there is someone out there who hates me, and won't forgive me. I want to resolve this, but it seems like everything makes the situation worse.

I'm giving up on reason because she would just go on saying I hate her site.

You can admit your mistake and say sorry. If she still doesn't take that, then you'll know who's the bigger person.

I've tried sorry, but maybe another go won't hurt. Actually, it probably will make this worse. Anyways, I'm going to PM her right now on the other CHB. If it doesn't work, I'm just going with option D because I'm tired of this. By the way, this is exactly what happened: http://halfbloodmania.forumotion.net/t1777-goforbarney-it-s-bunny-yall

*Gives Tethys a Muffin*

Actually, they did stop at one point, but it seemed as if nobody cared. Tethys said her opinion, and, it may not have been your favorite, but she did state it was her opinion. Now, you can keep going on about how she said she thought this site was better and how you're upset, or just forget about. Please, guys, stop the arguing. It's pointless.

I keep going on about this because I'm trying to resolve it, not make it worse... You do have all the reason to be mad, Psychopath, and I understand that we both were thinking of the other as incorrect. You can accept the apology I'm sending you on CHB.org, or not. It's my last try.

Tethys, if she doesn't accept, realize that you don't have to win over her approval. But, do understand that Psychopath does have a reason to not approve it.

Psychopath, if this happens again on HBM, coming from a CHB-er, shoot me PM (on which ever site, this one or HBM), if you want. But, if it DOES happen again and you end up cursing someone out, you also have to realize that you did something wrong, and until you realize that, I won't be talking to the person claiming that this site is better (true or not).

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion; but it's how people state their opinion and how others react a certain way to that person's opinion that can cause an argument as such. I doubt either of you meant to hurt each other; but sometimes it just comes out like that. We all make mistakes, but sometimes it's best just to drop it and stop continuously arguing over one subject, because we all know that it's never beneficial to anyone to keep on going over and over about something.

I do agree that it was not alright for Pyschopath to curse at Tethys -- as I said previously, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and should therefore not be criticized for it. However, I would say that once you realize someone isn't alright with your specified opinion, that's your red light to stop. If you continue, matters get worse than they are in the first place.

This whole argument could have been avoided if one of you would have thought over what to type and whether it would hurt someone's feelings before pressing send. I'm not criticizing anyone, but those things are key in any case scenario. Alright?

I hope this is resolved, and if you guys have any questions, please PM me.

And Tethys, like Music said, you don't have to win over her approval. Not everyone will forgive you for what you say; that's just life. And life will in fact go on regardless. This goes vice versa for you, Psychopath. I understand both of your frustrations, and I hope you put what I said above to good use.